460 You once said that you liked me just as I am…
四6壹 and I just wanted to say likewise. 作者对你也有一样的认为到
当真实用的俄语学习情势，现实和爱情。46二 I mean, there are stupid things your mum buys you.
肆陆叁 Tonight’s another classic. 明天就是个例子
46四You’re haughty and you always say the wrong thing in every situation.
4陆五And I seriously believe that you should rethink the length of your
46陆 But you’re a nice man… 但你是好人
467 and… 而且
468 I like you. 笔者喜欢您
46玖 If you wanted to pop by sometime, that might be nice.
470 More than nice. 极度盼望
– You missed your dinner. So… welcome home.
Hello my name is Maxwell, and in today’s article I am going to teach you
how to be a better listener, I’m going to teach you three steps which
will really really help you with your listening.so before I teach you
how to be a better listener.
- Oliver enjoy the trip?
- Yeah. I think he did.
- You two had a nice friendship.
- You are too smart not to know how rare , how special, what you two had
- Oliver was Oliver…
- Hmm… ” Because it was him. Because it was me.”
- Oliver may be very intelligent but …
- Oh no no no… He was more than intelligent. What you two had… had
everything and nothing to do with intelligence.
- He was good.
- You were both lucky to have found each other because… you too, are
- I think he was better than I… He was better than me.
- I’m sure he’d say the same thing about you.
- Yes. He’d say the same thing.
- Which flatters you both.
When you least expect it, nature has cunning ways of finding our
weakest spot. Just… remember I’m here. Right now you may not want to
feel anything. Maybe you never wanted to feel anything. And uh, maybe
it’s not to me you’ll want to speak about these things but uh… feel
something you obviously did. Look, you had a beautiful friendship. Maybe
more than a friendship. And I envy you. My place, most parents would
hope the whole thing goes away, pray their sons land on their feet
but… I am not such a parent. We rip out so much of ourselves to be
cured of things faster that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have
less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to make yourself
feel nothing so as not to feel anything… What a waste. Have I spoken
out of turn? Then I’ll say one more thing. It will clear the air. I may
have come close, but I never had what you two have. Something always…
held me back, or… stood in the way. How you live your life is your
business. Just… remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us
only once. And, before you know it, your heart’s worn out, and… and as
for your body, there comes a point where no one looks at it, much less
wants to come near it. Right now there’s sorrow… pain… don’t kill
it, and with it the joy you’ve felt.
- Does mom know?
- I don’t think she does.
I want you to think about what kind of listener are you?
Okay, so I have here a question I want you to imagine this,you’re
talking to somebody an English speaker and you don’t understand what
they’re saying, okay? you have no idea I don’t understand what they’ re
saying. What do you do?
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Okay? Here are your choices.
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a) Look scared
alright, I’ll go.(I’m gonna go)
no, what? why do you go?(No, I don’t want you to go)
I gotta think about some stuff.
What do you gotta think about?
talk to me.
talk to me.
you want to…
you’re going away.
you’re leaving. I’m staying here.
and I’m so happy that you’re doing that.
but you’re gonna have a million things to do.
you got so much ahead of you.
Noah, don’t talk like that.
I’m not gonna have nice things.
it doesn’t… it’s never gonna happen for me.
it’s not in the cards for me.
I don’t have to go to school, okay?
yes, you do.
I can stay here.
no, do you see? that’s exactly what I’m talking about.
and(then) you can come wth me.
to new york?
what am I gonna do in New york?
be with me?
i don’t know.
we don’t gotta figure all out tonight, you know?
we’ll finish out
this(the) summer and we’ll see what
you’re saying you want to
break up(break it off)?
I’m saying we see how it goes later on.
are you breaking up with me?
I don’t see how it’s gonna work.
b) Nod pretend you understand
break sth off
to end a relationship
They’ve broken off their engagement.
The governments have broken off diplomatic relations.
c) Say I don’t understand
d) Say I don’t understand and ask them to write it down
But you really don’t understand you have no idea?
Maybe you do multiple things which one do you think is the best thing to
If you said d or c you re correct okay, there is a little bit of a
difference between c and d it’s mainly that d we use some sort of
I’m going to teach you some very very good strategies you can use.which
will help you be a better listener okay so if you don’t understand
something the very first thing you should do is show you don’t
understand, You should really let the person know you don’t understand
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about we all have times where we don’t
understand what somebody is saying but we really do want to know so it’s
very important you let the person know that you don’t understand so here
are a couple of different ways we can say that the first one.
I didn’t catch that I’m sorry
I didn’t catch that this means the exact same thing as I don’t
So you can say I don’t understand or I didn’t catch that
you can also say I’m sorry I don’t understand
新葡萄京娱乐场网址 ，you can say I no understand that one is bad English
Okay, that’s the first step.Step 2
the second step is using a strategy okay?
so what do I mean by this when you use a strategy you’re pretty
much-asking somebody to help you out in a different way You asking
somebody to do something to help you understand so this is an excellent
expression could you please
write it down?
speak more slowly
say it in a different way?
A lot of English speakers and also me myself included sometimes we speak
too fast so it’s perfectly okay if you say politely maybe the problem is
the person who’s speaking is talking way too fast so just a nice
Could you please speak more slowly?
This one is very useful because sometimes when you say an English the
speaker I don’t understand.They keep saying the same thing the exact
same way and that’s not helpful sometimes you really need to hear it in
different words.So it’also a great idea to ask the person
Now let’s look at the third step
Okay our third step is double check the person is telling you to check
the meaning so this pretty much means that after you’ve told them you
Don’t understand and you’re asked them to use some sort of strategy the
third thing is you re going to make sure you really understood so how
are you going to do this?
Well one thing you can do is you
so what you’re saying is…
so what you mean is…
I think I get what you’re saying…